Remote-controlled toys use a physical remote nearby, while app-controlled toys connect to a phone app—often offering more customization and sometimes long-distance control.

Many do, depending on the brand and app. Typically both partners use the app and a stable internet connection for reliable control.

Privacy varies by brand. Check app permissions, use strong passwords, keep your phone updated, and choose reputable brands that clearly address privacy.

Most toys revert to a default state or stop. Test the toy at home first and keep communication open so you feel safe and in control.

Yes—usually a small amount of water-based lube improves comfort. Avoid getting lube into charging ports and follow cleaning instructions.

Follow the waterproof rating. Many toys can be washed with warm water and gentle soap/toy cleaner; others should be wiped. Dry fully before charging or storing.